Dear Annie,
I am a single submissive looking for a dominant partner. I am definitely “for real” but I hesitate to put my picture out in public because of my job. What tips do you have for creating an attractive profile that will still keep me safe?
Anonymous in Atlanta
Dear Anonymous,
Privacy is the number one concern for all people in the kink community. If you can’t have your own pictures on your profile, why not use someone else’s? Google images is full of attractive people and if you pick one that kinda looks like you, what is the harm?
You also might want to select pictures from famous photographers of things you like and use their pictures too.
If all else fails, you can just fill your profile with hundreds of memes and demotivational posters. You will really stand out!